Hello March!

Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Hello 2022! Hello March! It’s been a while since I’ve written a blog post. 2022 started off with me in bed recovering from C-19. I took the month of January off and the new year started officially for me in February. But February went by…

How to Deal With an Absent Dad

How do you handle absentee fathers? Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Single moms…if your child’s father is not in their life, how do you deal with an absent dad? So, this post may be a trigger warning to some. If so, feel free not to read. Growing up, I too…

5 tips to finding an apartment in NYC

How to find an apartment in NYC Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Finding an apartment in New York is by far an experience. By experience, I mean finding the right location that is near transportation, in a great school area, parks nearby, walking distance supermarkets, low-crime, the list goes on…

It’s My Birthday!

Thirty-Fine! AKA Thirty-Five! Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Happy birthday to me! I am blessed and happy to see make it another year around the sun. I am grateful for life. For my birthday this year, I just wanted to spend time with my family and baby. Since I turned…

EX Diary

Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? So, I got the inspiration/courage to write this blog post when my good girlfriend Shirley decided to post a question box on her IG about worst thing an ex did to you. And when I tell you that there are trash ass men out there…just…

Traveling to Sint Maarteen

Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? This past month, 11 of us decided to travel to the beautiful Island of Sint Maarteen to celebrate my cousin’s 30th birthday! Her theme was “Talk Thirty To Me”. She was looking for a place that we could relax when we wanted to and party….

Mask On, Mask Off

To wear a mask or not…that is the question Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Let’s talk you guys… How do you feel about the mask mandated being lifted for vaccinated folks? According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) fully vaccinated people can resume activities without wearing a…

Get Over Imposter Syndrome

Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Am I the only one that deals with imposter syndrome??? When you say imposter syndrome, I define it as feelings of inadequacy that continues to take over my mind despite there being evident of success. Imposter syndrome is suffering from self-doubt and a sense of…

Where The Money Resides

It’s that time of year…MONEY SAVING CHALLENGE! Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan Ou Ye! How You Doing? Last year I did the 52-Week money saving challenge and I was successful! I was so proud of myself because I usually start the challenge and quit halfway through prior. I use to be horrible at saving money but…

Vision For A New Year

My vision for a new year Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan Ou Ye! How You Doing? What is a vision board? A vision board is a visual representation of your goals. Most people create a vision board yearly or quarterly to meet their goals. It is a collage of images and words that are important to…