Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Until further notice, I will be putting dating on pause… The last date I’ve been on or the last relationship I’ve been in was almost three years ago. Yes 3 years ago, with my child’s father. Honestly the ending of that relationship caused me a…
Category: Thoughts
Hello March!
Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Hello 2022! Hello March! It’s been a while since I’ve written a blog post. 2022 started off with me in bed recovering from C-19. I took the month of January off and the new year started officially for me in February. But February went by…
How to Deal With an Absent Dad
How do you handle absentee fathers? Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Single moms…if your child’s father is not in their life, how do you deal with an absent dad? So, this post may be a trigger warning to some. If so, feel free not to read. Growing up, I too…
5 tips to finding an apartment in NYC
How to find an apartment in NYC Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Finding an apartment in New York is by far an experience. By experience, I mean finding the right location that is near transportation, in a great school area, parks nearby, walking distance supermarkets, low-crime, the list goes on…
It’s My Birthday!
Thirty-Fine! AKA Thirty-Five! Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Happy birthday to me! I am blessed and happy to see make it another year around the sun. I am grateful for life. For my birthday this year, I just wanted to spend time with my family and baby. Since I turned…
Traveling to Sint Maarteen
Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? This past month, 11 of us decided to travel to the beautiful Island of Sint Maarteen to celebrate my cousin’s 30th birthday! Her theme was “Talk Thirty To Me”. She was looking for a place that we could relax when we wanted to and party….
Mask On, Mask Off
To wear a mask or not…that is the question Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Let’s talk you guys… How do you feel about the mask mandated being lifted for vaccinated folks? According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) fully vaccinated people can resume activities without wearing a…
Get Over Imposter Syndrome
Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan ou Ye! How are you doing? Am I the only one that deals with imposter syndrome??? When you say imposter syndrome, I define it as feelings of inadequacy that continues to take over my mind despite there being evident of success. Imposter syndrome is suffering from self-doubt and a sense of…
Where The Money Resides
It’s that time of year…MONEY SAVING CHALLENGE! Hey Y’all Hey! Kijan Ou Ye! How You Doing? Last year I did the 52-Week money saving challenge and I was successful! I was so proud of myself because I usually start the challenge and quit halfway through prior. I use to be horrible at saving money but…