Hey Y’all Hey Kijan ou ye?? How are you doing?
Everybody has a chapter they don’t read out loud!
So, let’s talk…
Why do people always feel like they must talk about the bad before they talk about the good?
Why do we feel like people won’t resonate with us if we don’t first tell them about our trials and tribulations?
Lately, I’ve been seeing people talk about the downfalls that occurred in their life as a prelude to sharing their happiness and that’s the reason behind why they are celebrating. As well as pointing out that what you see on social media isn’t everything. But shouldn’t people have common sense to know that everyone doesn’t share everything on social media! Your social media is exactly that yours!
So, my question to you is…why can’t we just celebrate our wins without bringing up our loses?
Have we become a society where we can’t be happy for someone unless we know their past and their pain? Must we disclose our pain to the world in order for people to join in on the celebration? We all go through trials and tribulations and if I choose to only share the happy times, is that wrong?
Are we not smart enough to know that everyone has a chapter they don’t read out loud and what we CHOOSE to share on social media is our own choice?
Let’s stop expecting people to share with the world their trials and tribulations. And if they CHOOSE to share, let’s not ask them for more. We all have our own challenges and path. Let’s respect the boundaries that people have and not expect someone to share their entire life with the world.
Let’s normalize celebrating!
Celebrating your family!
Celebrating your friends!
Celebrating all your wins!
Let’s normalize celebrating without having to prove that we are worthy to celebrate!
Until the next post…
Live with purpose, Love with passion, Laugh with pleasure!